Look -- she's just not that into you. Back off already.
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Sorry, perhaps I should have left further clarification on that post. The intended recipient should know who he is. All involved have had extensive conversations about the situation in the past. I felt that generalities had come to no end, and that a more blunt approach was perhaps needed.
Yes, you have been friends for a long time. Yes, you have feelings for her. No, she does not have feelings for you. Yes, she knows you have feelings for her - you haven't been that descrete.
She is my friend and I am asking that you back off - you don't need to know her entire schedule, invite her to every social event or be invited to her social events. Don't call all the time, don't befriend her friends, don't bring gifts, and try moving away from her side.
Simply put, she's just not that into you. And she needs much more space than you've been giving her.
Sorry, perhaps I should have left further clarification on that post. The intended recipient should know who he is. All involved have had extensive conversations about the situation in the past. I felt that generalities had come to no end, and that a more blunt approach was perhaps needed.
Yes, you have been friends for a long time. Yes, you have feelings for her. No, she does not have feelings for you. Yes, she knows you have feelings for her - you haven't been that descrete.
She is my friend and I am asking that you back off - you don't need to know her entire schedule, invite her to every social event or be invited to her social events. Don't call all the time, don't befriend her friends, don't bring gifts, and try moving away from her side.
Simply put, she's just not that into you. And she needs much more space than you've been giving her.